That is, I don't care if one thinks homosexuality is moral or immoral, unless one can prove actual damage to the State by allowing homosexual marriage--which I don't believe that one can--there is no reason for the State to deny it.

Exactly. It's just that I started asking myself why I get so worked up over the issue. I mean, no one's keeping me from getting married, but I want go and kick some asses over this. It's an emotional issue for me as well as an intellectual one, and I wondered why that was.