The three days rule pisses me off. Do you kids not know that calling sooner is more often interpreted as eagerness than desperation? And at what point should we girls give up? After a week? That's my usual time limit, but then there are bozos like Mr. Six Weeks who act as if the long delay is perfectly normal. It is vexing, and makes me glad I can't be arsed to find someone to date at the moment.
In actual reply to you: I think there is a bit of self-selection happening, as the guys who failed to call were the ones I would just as soon not have heard from anyway. Perhaps they were more perceptive than I gave them credit for.
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Date: 2005-03-11 07:27 pm (UTC)In actual reply to you: I think there is a bit of self-selection happening, as the guys who failed to call were the ones I would just as soon not have heard from anyway. Perhaps they were more perceptive than I gave them credit for.