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May. 4th, 2003 11:58 am![[personal profile]](https://www.dreamwidth.org/img/silk/identity/user.png){kind=small}
darklunaWhat boys don't realize about girls...OK, what boys don't realize about *me* is that I generally know within 30 seconds of meeting someone if I can be persuaded to sleep with him or not.
I can think of one case in which that initial assessment turned out to be wrong. And sleeping with him was not the greatest idea in the world, so maybe it was right and I just decided to ignore it.
I wish I knew what sort of processing my brain does to arrive at a conclusion so quickly. It's not based on looks--at least, not entirely. It has more to do with whether the spark is there or not. I think trying to quantify or define the spark would make it lose its magic, but it would still be interesting to actually be in touch with my subconscious when it makes these decisions.
I can think of one case in which that initial assessment turned out to be wrong. And sleeping with him was not the greatest idea in the world, so maybe it was right and I just decided to ignore it.
I wish I knew what sort of processing my brain does to arrive at a conclusion so quickly. It's not based on looks--at least, not entirely. It has more to do with whether the spark is there or not. I think trying to quantify or define the spark would make it lose its magic, but it would still be interesting to actually be in touch with my subconscious when it makes these decisions.
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Date: 2003-05-06 09:26 pm (UTC)